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That is the main thesis of this blog. Moving beyond betrayal and into meaning. But, what does it mean, exactly?

I’ll speak to this personally and what it means to me. You see when I started this blog it was because I had gone through my own personal drama. I had been on the down end of a cheating spouse, and I had experienced the whole gamut of pain and emotion.

I go into great detail about this in my survival guide, “The Cheating Spouse Detection System.”

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If you’re looking to catch a cheating spouse, I thought it might fun to include the story of Gwen. Read it and see if it sounds remotely familiar:

Gwen is in her mid to late 40′s, from Kansas City, Missouri. She’s been married for well over twenty years. She has two teenage children – a boy and a girl; one already off to college and one on the way there shortly.

Gwen has picked up a few extra pounds over the years, but with working and taking care of the household, where’s the time for anything personal?  She doesn’t even have her hair done much anymore.

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James Hollis is a wonder.

I have affectionately called him “Yoda Hollis.”

Listening to him speak is like listening to the voice of wisdom itself.

Chances are if you have found this blog you are undergoing a personal and emotional crisis. I wanted to put something right up front that I felt was going to be of immediate help to you. This interview with Hollis is almost a half hour long. It is worth the listen. If you can’t listen now, bookmark the site and come back and listen another time.

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There is something magical about Byron Katie and the way she discusses the modern adult, romantic relationship.  There is a re-focusing of the entire parameter of perception.

The emphasis is on “you” and not on your partner, no matter how much you feel you may need them.  No matter how much you may feel you’ve been victimized.  You have more power than you realize.  It’s a matter of perception.

This is a lengthy video.  Do yourself a favor and listen to every minute of it.

I felt it was important to put something of great value in the lead slots of this website.   If you think your partner is betraying you,  or if you know that to be true, Byron Katie is a light in the dark wilderness.  Follow the light.

There is a way out.  And, it is through you.

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How to apologize to your spouse: In a lot of hot water, huh? Let’s get these bases covered, and get you taken care of.

If done with depth and sincerity, the apology can pull your ass out of a lot of trouble.  Done improperly, it is completely meaningless and can do real damage to your cause.

I’m sure you’ve met people who just refuse to apologize no matter the circumstances. It’s against their definition of self. I’ve met my share in my time. For some reason, a lot of them are attorneys, but that’s a topic for another day.

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