What are the signs of a cheating spouse?
You suspect, and you feel guilty of suspecting. You are unsure of what to think and how to handle the situation.
Do you confront them? Watch from a distance? Do a little snooping before you act?
More than anything, this is confusing. Would someone, for the love of all that’s holy, help me and tell me what to do?
If you have suspicions that you’re seeing signs of a cheating spouse, you’re already in a troubled spot. Every move seems wrong and incomplete. The once firm ground beneath your feet has begun to move.
So, what are the signs of a cheating spouse? And, what is the proper approach to this mess?
Signs of a Cheating Spouse; When You Just Gotta Know
Now, I know better than anyone how important it is to know. It can literally drive a person a mad. And, the one person that you’ve trusted with just about everything is the one you’re questioning. The world has turned upside down. The harbor light has been turned off.
This can leave you feeling helpless and not knowing where to turn.
I found in the end, you are really alone with this. And, that aloneness can strip of you everything you once held dear. Everything you once thought you could count on.
Truth be told? There is no magic to get you to the ‘other’ side and take away your questions and pain. The really aren’t “10 Quick Tips to Catch a Cheating Spouse And Make Everything Better.” That stuff is dead, and your life is a living, moving thing, going on now in your skin.
If you strongly suspect you have a cheating partner on your hands, be prepared for a process. There are no quick anecdotes. No miracle cures.
Sure. You can find some comfort in food, in alcohol, maybe drugs. But, you are going hear me hammering this point over and over again in this blog: you are alone, taking a journey through ‘self.’ More than anything, that journey will determine what the rest of your life will be. And, no matter what you may think, you do have choices to make. It is always your life.
And, know there are no guarantees. If you’re looking for answers on how to fix a broken relationship, be aware: there are no guarantees your relationship will survive. No one knows if you will be ‘safe,’ able to avoid whatever pain may be waiting up ahead.
What happens when you live the questions, when you don’t avoid anything? I will honestly say: I am not entirely sure. But, maybe we can find out together.
When you have spotted signs of a cheating spouse, all your questions come to life.
“I hear babies cry and watch them grow, you know they’ll learn more than I’ll ever know, and I think to myself what a wonderful world.” – Louis Armstrong from the song “It’s a Wonderful World”
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Article by Stan Sentavi
I have been through a betrayal that I thought would break me. It didn't. It made me stronger and more resolute. I am a wiser and a better person in the end. I now know the most important relationship you ever have is with yourself. Be responsible and demand the life you want. No excuses. No playing the role of "victim."
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I recently came across your article and have been reading along.
Well done. You’ve done a good job of making conveying a lot of your personal insight. Thanks for putting this blog together.