Are you seeing signs of a cheating boyfriend? How do you know for certain he is running around on you? What do you look for? Are there tip-offs you could be being betrayed?
One impediment to getting to the truth is a lack of patience. It can do you a lot of harm. During this critical time of suspicion remember: You want to keep your eyes and ears open and your mouth shut.
Don’t run to your boyfriend and demand answers to your suspicions. For one, you may be wrong. And, it will only alarm him that you are aware he is up to something.
Be alert.
Watch.
Do this and it will shave a lot of time off your clock when it comes to getting at the truth. Don’t do it and your suffering will increase.
Okay, let’s get into the signs of a cheating boyfriend.
Signs of a Cheating Boyfriend
1) Watch his cell phone usage. That is always the number one tip I give to anyone who suspects they are involved with someone who may be cheating on them.
Do they guard the cell phone like a pit bull? Is it never out of their sight?
Do they take calls in another room, away from you where you can’t hear what’s being said? Are they responding in a strange way to texts and calls? Are you ever allowed to use their phone?
A good trick: Tell them sometime you have “forgotten” your phone and need to use theirs and watch the reaction. If they hand the phone over to you and say, “Sure,” they have nothing to hide. If they look like you have just ask them to hand over their private santcuary, you could have a problem on your hands.
What you want to look for here is how private they make their cell phone use, and how guarded they are with their phone.
2) More and more time spent with “the boys.” Does this scenario sound at all familiar: You first started dating all he wanted to do was be with you. Now, some time has gone by, and he’s spending more and more time with the fellas, and it’s cutting in your private time.
Look, you want him to have his friends and a life away from you. But, if your time together is in straight decline, you need to keep your eyes (and ears) open.
3) He begins to question if you really love him anymore. Ah, yes. The guilt overfloweth.
If he’s now saying stuff like, “I dunno. It just seems you don’t love me anymore.” Or, “Are you seeing someone?” You should hear the alarm bells screaming in the distance.
This is a tip-off to his feelings and actions, and he’s transferring them on to you. This is especially true to he’s constant about it.
4) Has he started to put new boundaries on your relationship? If he’s asking, “What do you consider exclusive?” this is the first step into setting you up to setting you down.
Another boundary redefinition question: “How do you define cheating?”
If you’re hearing this kind of stuff, you have a boyfriend with his feet firmly planted at the door. If he’s not cheating on you now you shouldn’t have long to wait.
5) Sudden drop off in this level of affection towards you. This can’t be faked. At least most males don’t want to go through the trouble of “faking it.”
Has he stopped touching you and being intimate? And, “intimate” can be so many things, including conversation.
You know when your boyfriend is genuinely affectionate towards you. You know if he’s suddenly slammed on the brakes. And, if the brakes have been applied you have to ask the sixty-four dollar question again: Why now?
Signs of a Cheating Boyfriend – Wrapping It All Up
If you are seeing signs of cheating boyfriend, don’t confront him until you have a good idea what the truth is.
After you feel comfortable with what is really going on, it’s then time to sit down and have a talk. There are worse things than splitting up, believe me. And, maybe it’s time to move on.
Be honest and express your thoughts and feelings without anger and really listen when he speaks. Listening can open up a whole new avenue to lot of different things when there is sincere caring. It’s a great place to start.
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Article by Stan Sentavi
I have been through a betrayal that I thought would break me. It didn't. It made me stronger and more resolute. I am a wiser and a better person in the end. I now know the most important relationship you ever have is with yourself. Be responsible and demand the life you want. No excuses. No playing the role of "victim."
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