[tooltip color="black" text="Please sign up for our free guides located on the right sidebar of each page."] How to fix a broken relationship [/tooltip]. What is the magic that gets that accomplished? Why are some couples able to work through their difficulties and other couples are destroyed?

First, let’s take a quick look at what has caused the problem in the first place. When a couple is attempting to survive an affair, there is no doubt they have lost touch with each other. Something is missing in the relationship that was there before.  What is that and what do you do to maintain it and keep a break from happening?

To me I believe role playing has tremendous part to play in the breakdown of a relationship.  How many times have you seen a couple happy for a long stretch of time, they get married and suddenly (or not so suddenly but inevitably in some cases) the spark is gone?

We assume the roles that have been laid out of us: husband, wife, father, mother, complete with all the duties that come with them. The problem here is that when you are playing a role, you are not actively alive and alert.  You have fallen asleep and put your life on automatic pilot.

How to Fix a Broken Relationship; When Duty Calls

Now, when you are consumed with duty and these roles, where is the connection that was once there between the two of you? It gets pushed into the background, a secondary part of your life and grows less and less significant with each passing day. Relationship trouble is just a matter of course.

The cultural demands of the family plays a significant role as well. In these modern times, it is not unusual to have both partners working to support the family.  You throw in the responsibility of parenthood, and what energy or time is left?

Is it any wonder at all that one partner or the other looks up after a time, feels disconnected from the relationship, looks over to their spouse or lover and believes they see signs of cheating? Who in their right mind wants a life of duty and acting out their lives, in essence becoming a robot with only utility having any value?

Sooner or later one of the partners bumps into someone attractive, sparks fly, projections crossfire, and the temptation becomes too great; duty gives way to spontaneous living.  It’s a no-brainer.  It’s not even a matter of love, really. It’s matter of the vitality of one’s life, of what makes it worth living. And, I think what makes any life worth living is when it is in relationship to what is around it. When those relationships break down, everything gets devalued.  But, it all starts with the relationship of the self to itself, if that makes any sense.

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If you have not the slightest awareness of what moves in you, how can you possibly be aware of another?  If you’ve lost track of your inner life, is it no wonder that fact manifests into your outward, daily life?

If you are in this situation and asking: how to fix a broken relationship, you may be wondering if there’s anything to be done to prevent this from happening, to avoid dealing with infidelity.

I believe this comes down to an individual responsibility to realize the traps that are set for you from the outset of your journey.  Those traps are myriad and will suck the life out of your existence.  You are not a role to be played; you are a life to live, a living thing, moving dynamically moment to moment through time.

How to fix a broken relationship? Start with what is broken or lost in yourself and see what happens.

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